A Guide to Choosing Your First Sex Doll: Features, Materials, and More

So, you're toying with the idea of a realistic sex doll—and you're not alone. Across New Zealand and the globe, more people are discovering the intimate, judgment-free pleasures that life-like sex dolls offer. Whether you're looking to fulfil a fantasy, soothe loneliness, experiment with sensuality, or spice up your solo sessions, sex dolls are more than just toys—they're deeply personal, deeply satisfying companions.

Let’s dive into everything you need to know about choosing your first sex doll. From body-safe materials to custom features, we’ll break down what really matters—so you can shop with confidence and turn your desire into reality.

What Is a Sex Doll?

A sex doll is a full-size or partial silicone or TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) figure designed to replicate the look and feel of a human partner. Also called love dolls, TPE dolls, life-like sex dolls, or synthetic companions, these intimate partners are carefully sculpted to capture human anatomy—from firm breasts to soft skin and textured orifices.

But sex dolls aren’t just about penetration. They offer an emotionally freeing, erotically immersive experience. You can cuddle, converse, dress them up, roleplay, or enjoy intense sessions of full-body stimulation. Whether male, female, transgender, or fantasy forms like elves or anime girls, sex dolls are an open invitation to pleasure on your terms.

Types of Sex Dolls

Your first decision? Choosing the style of doll that suits your desires and living space.

Full Body Sex Dolls

These are life-size companions, often ranging from 140cm to >170cm tall. They include full breasts, buttocks, oral and anal entries, and highly realistic sculpting. Perfect if you're looking for the most immersive experience.

Torso Sex Dolls

A more compact option featuring just the hips, buttocks, and vaginal/anal entries. Easier to store and more affordable while still offering mind-blowing penetration.

Mini Dolls & Fantasy Dolls

Some dolls come in petite or fantasy forms—think anime eyes, elf ears, oversized features, or gender-bending body types. These are ideal for more playful, imaginative exploration.

Male Sex Dolls

Yes, there are male dolls too—featuring muscular physiques, life-like penises (some even come with internal structures or motors), and handsome, chiseled faces.

Transgender & Non-Binary Dolls

For those seeking authentic representation, many brands now offer dolls with mixed genitalia or androgynous features to reflect diverse bodies and fantasies.

Why Use a Sex Doll?

The beauty of realistic sex dolls lies in their ability to deliver deep, personalised intimacy—no performance anxiety, no judgement, no pressure.

Explore Fetishes & Fantasies

Want to try roleplay? Taboo scenarios? Or just let go in ways you can’t with a human partner? A doll is your safe, receptive canvas.

Build Sexual Confidence

If you're shy, recovering from trauma, or simply wanting to reconnect with your body, a doll offers a no-pressure way to explore pleasure and practice techniques.

Long-Distance & Disability Friendly

Miss the feeling of closeness or physical touch? Many customers, especially those navigating long-distance relationships or disabilities, find solace and arousal in doll companionship.

Improve Stamina & Technique

Use your sex doll as a sensual training partner. Learn how to delay ejaculation, practice new positions, or experiment with different angles and thrust depths.

Pure, Guilt-Free Fun

Sometimes, it's just about indulgence. The smooth curves, soft textures, and full-body realism feel divine—and yes, you’re allowed to enjoy every second.

How to Choose the Right Sex Doll

Your first doll should be a celebration of your desires. Here’s what to consider before you click "Add to Cart".

Materials: Silicone vs TPE

TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer):
Soft, squishy, and very skin-like. TPE is flexible and feels realistic but requires more care (non-porous, but can't handle extreme heat).

Silicone:
Slightly firmer but easier to clean and more durable over time. It holds detail beautifully and is often used in premium dolls.

Both are body-safe and hypoallergenic when sourced from reputable brands.

Weight & Size

Dolls can range from 20kg to 50kg or more.

Choose based on what you can comfortably lift, clean, and position.

Petite dolls (under 150cm) are lighter and easier to store, while full-sized dolls feel more immersive.

Skeleton & Flexibility

Look for dolls with metal skeletons and joint articulation.

These allow for posing, flexibility in positions, and a more realistic feel when cuddling or moving during intimacy.

Orifice Options

Most full-size dolls offer vaginal, anal, and oral entries.

Some include removable inserts for easier cleaning.

Others offer integrated designs for ultra-realistic feel.

Shop Our Realistic Sex Doll Range

Be Daring NZ is proud to offer a curated collection of realistic sex dolls crafted for Kiwis who crave quality, fantasy, and freedom. Whether you’re after a curvy blonde bombshell, a sleek anime doll, or a robust male model—we’ve got the companion you’ve been dreaming of.

Every doll is shipped discreetly and safely, with fast delivery across New Zealand. Many are customisable with skin tone, eye colour, breast type, pubic hair, and even voice upgrades.

Ready to meet your match? Browse our full collection of sex dolls and buy online with confidence.

How to Use a Sex Doll Safely

Your new companion deserves care—and so do you. Here's how to keep things clean, safe, and sexy.

Always use water-based lubricant.

This prevents damage to the TPE or silicone and enhances pleasure.

Clean before and after use.

Use a mild toy cleaner or antibacterial soap, rinse thoroughly, and allow to air-dry fully.

Store properly.

Avoid folding or storing your doll in tight positions. Use a storage box or soft bedding, and keep away from direct sunlight or extreme temperatures.

Protect the skeleton.

Don’t force joints beyond their natural range. Most dolls are flexible—but not unbreakable.

Condoms (optional but smart).

If you’re sharing your doll or want faster cleanup, using condoms can reduce cleanup and preserve the material longer.

FAQs About Sex Dolls

What makes realistic sex dolls so popular?

They offer personalised pleasure with zero judgement. You set the pace, the scene, and the intensity—without worrying about anyone else's needs.

How do I clean and maintain my sex doll?

Clean all orifices and skin with mild antibacterial soap or a toy cleaner. Pat dry and apply corn starch or talcum powder to keep the skin silky.

Are sex dolls waterproof?

Most are splashproof, and many can be bathed or showered with care. Check manufacturer instructions before submerging.

Which sex doll is best for beginners?

We recommend a lighter, torso-style doll or a petite full-body option (under 30kg) to ease into handling, cleaning, and storage.

Final Thoughts: Your Desire, Your Doll, Your Rules

Stepping into the world of sex dolls is more than just a purchase—it’s an invitation to unleash your fantasies, reclaim your sensuality, and deepen your solo or partnered play. With the right doll by your side, you're not settling—you're curating your pleasure, your way.

At Be Daring New Zealand, we’re here to help you explore that freedom with high-quality sex dolls, fast New Zealand shipping, and a promise of total discretion.

Your perfect partner is waiting. All you need to do is say yes.